Here’s how to throw a super cute Valentine’s Day party worthy of the ’gram (2024)

Hot take: Valentine’s Day parties are vastly underrated. Forget a romantic dinner for two at a snooty restaurant! Throw a party (or, like, a fun lil brunch) with your entire friend group instead. Go all out with decorations and give each other homemade valentines (!). Throw in a few themed co*cktails too, and you’ve got a soiree that rivals any other. After all, V-Day is a time to celebrate all love—which is def an excuse to have a party with your BFFs. (Your boo can come too, of course.)

The hidden lil bonus about all this? Valentine’s Day is such an aesthetically pleasing celebration. There’s the red and the pink and the chocolate and a very good reason to bring back rosé season early. It honestly makes me wonder why there aren’t more V-Day parties happening every year. This is a missed opportunity, people! It’s time to embrace the cheesy, lovey-dovey feels and put these 28 snazzy Valentine’s Day party ideas to good use.

Go ahead and scroll through for some fun party-planning tips that will make your V-Day bash the envy of the newsfeed.

1. Send some sexy-ass invites

Get your crew psyched with all the deets on your festive event. You could make it super cute and go the snail-mail route. Or if you’re looking for something more immediate, then a perfectly designed digital invite sent straight to their emails could be just the choice for you. Or you know a Whats-app with a lot of heart emojis always goes down a treat.

2. Plan a fun party game

Yes, catching up is fun, but change things up with this card game that might make you laugh so hard you pee a little.

3. Get the drinks ready

Whip up an easy Valentine’s Day co*cktail recipe for your party guests or keep it simple and just grab yourself a nice bottle of tequila, wine, or alcohol-free spirits. (Yes, those exist!)

4. Prep a cute lil craft

All good soirees have a fun activity—which can totally mean doing a V-Day craft. (They’re not just for kids, okay?) Make each other some DIY cards! Make friendship bracelets! Once co*cktails get passed around, people are bound to get creative.

5. Set up a romantic movie room

For guests who just want a moment away from the chatter (or couples who want a sec to snug), a movie room is the perf addition to any party. Throw on a romantic film, dim the lights, and give the partygoers a place to relax.

6. Do some fortune telling

Friends of any relationship status can enjoy this gorgeously illustrated deck of future-revealing tarot cards. (Or amp up the ~sexy vibes~ with an erotically themed deck instead.)

7. Set up a DIY photo booth

Now’s the time to use that random spare wall in your flat. Set up an Insta-worthy backdrop by covering a wall with glitter-foil and other festive items. Order some uh-mazing on-brand props and balloons, and snap and share.

8. Come dressed on theme

We’re not saying you gotta show up to your own party dressed in lingerie—but we're certainly not stopping you if you feel like wearing something a lil special under your party clothes. Aside from lace frills and strappy garments, there’s a slew of other V-Day-themed ’fits you could get all gussied up in (and yes pyjamas count as partywear).

9. Have a little spa day

Self-love is the best kind of love. So why not give your party a "treat yourself" theme and curate a relaxing mini oasis? Set up a mani/pedi station, have a massage gun ready, and maybe even light some candles to *really* set the scene.

10. Do a 'secret cupid' gift exchange

Gift swap parties shouldn't be reserved for December! Have your guests bring a small token that falls under an agreed-upon price limit. Then, once your guests arrive, put everyone's name in a hat, and whoever you draw gets your present!

11. Bake and decorate!

This is the festive occasion where people with a sweet tooth thrive. Exactly why it's the perfect opportunity for a baking party. If you don't want to bake something from scratch, you could opt to decorate pre-made biscuits, or ice some cupcakes instead.

12. Host a classy dinner party

Obviously "dinner for two" is the most steadily established V-Day idea of all time. Let's take it up a notch with "dinner for [insert # of invitees here]." Design a cute menu, create a Valentine's Day-themed tablescape, and make sure you tell your guests to dress to impress. This will make for a great photo op and IRL experience.

13. Make flower bouquets

Sure, receiving a bouquet is "nice" and all (OK, it's actually really cute and we get emotional every time), but making bouquets with your friends? New levels of all the feels, truly. Plus, it's an engaging party activity with a gorgeous outcome! For your stem supply, have everyone bring a bouquet of a specific type of flowers so that they can add them to the main pile.

14. Paint candles together

This is another cool, creative endeavour for your group. Just buy a bunch of taper candles, paint, and a few paintbrushes and you'll have the most aesthetic addition to your home.

15. Make appreciation slideshows

"Slideshow nights" are all the rage on TikTok, and for a good reason. Everyone comes with a hilarious presentation on a specific subject prepared, and in the spirit of V-Day, your subject should be Bestie Appreciation. You can include little-known facts, favourite memories, the works. You know this'll cause some happy tears to flow.

16. Do a wine swap

Here's a low-stakes activity that will get the party going. Have everyone bring their favourite bottle and wrap it up nicely, then place it on a table as they arrive. From there, every guest can pick a random bottle to keep (or pop open then and there, because why the hell not?).

17. Have a fun sleepover

The party should never end! Embrace your inner giggly teen and turn the shindig into an overnight affair. Make the dress code matching PJs to really take things a step further.

18. Write platonic love letters

Cringey? Yes. Heartwarming? Yes—with emphasis. Penning each other professions of love on cute stationery is the perfect way to honour both your friends and the season. Extra points if you've got anyone with cool calligraphy skills in your group.

19. Set up some mood lighting

It's all about the ambiance, y'all. So, for your V-Day soiree, invest in some heart-shaped string lights to hang in the space and set the mood.

20. Have heart-shaped fruit and veggie platters

If you want to get really festive, place your mini bites in heart-shaped serving trays. Why take on the Valentine's Day theme if you're not going to commit? Even the starters should feel the love!

21. Set up a lovey-dovey playlist

Build a collaborative playlist on Spotify! All of your partygoers can add their fave romantic tunes, and each of you gets a chance to play DJ for the night.

22. Get some karaoke going

No need for stellar vocals! Just a karaoke machine and a setlist of popular throwback tunes to please your adoring fans (aka your friends). No activity will bond a group more.

23. Do a scavenger hunt

Now, is this the first activity that pops into your head when you think of Valentine's Day? Probably not. But you can make it a whole thing with sweet prizes and V-Day-themed riddles. Here's how to set up a scavenger hunt BTW.

24. Play rom-com charades

Forget about regular charades. Test your group's essential rom-com knowledge with a few rounds of charades specifically focused on the classic movies in this genre. If the performances are particularly tragic, you'll know it's time to make the night a movie marathon instead.

25. Play Prosecco pong!

It's literally just beer pong, but prettier. Clear a table, pop open your bubbly, and get your game faces ready.

26. Hand out accessories to wear

When you look around the room and see your friends dripped out in heart headbands and cupid wings, you'll thank us. The V-day dress-up opportunities are vast, so stock up on the cutest options and have your guests model them all night.

27. Distribute disposable cameras

These are great for capturing memories throughout the night. By making every one of your guests participate, the event pics that you develop will have a wide range of ~artistic visions~ and perspectives. That's exactly the kind of variety we like to see!

28. Play Guess Who?

Times like these are when you should get to know your buds. Have everybody write down random fun facts about themselves on pieces of paper, and then go around in a circle drawing them from a hat. Whoever guesses the most correctly gets best friend bragging rights.

Happy V-Day!